EntrepreneurCorner.com Podcast
How to Find the One
Thu Jul 13 2023Description
The episode discusses the secrets to finding a special someone and the importance of actions speaking louder than words in relationships. It emphasizes the need to judge someone accurately over time, understand different personas, become your best self, and meet many people. It also highlights the significance of observing actions and emotions, seeking trust, and finding common goals.
Insights
Secrets to Finding a Special Someone
To find a special someone, it's important to judge them accurately over time, understand their different personas, become your best self, and meet many people.
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
In relationships, actions speak louder than words. It's easy to fake words, but hard to fake actions and emotions. Incongruency between words and actions is a sign that something is wrong.
Importance of Trust
Trust is essential for any relationship to work. It is important to observe how someone acts and their emotions rather than relying solely on what they say.
Finding Common Goals
Choosing someone with at least one long-term common goal that aligns with yours is important in finding the right person.
Chapters
Finding a Special Someone
00:01 - 07:22
- To find a special someone, whether for romance, friendship, or business partnership, it's important to apply these five secrets.
- Judging someone accurately takes time and seeing them in various situations over six months to two years.
- People have different personas: public, private, hidden personal, and secret desires.
- To find the right person, you need to become your best self and attract like-minded individuals.
- Volume is key - meet many people and be willing to say no until you find a good fit.
- Avoid seeking perfection in others; have high standards but realistic expectations.
- Choose someone with at least one long-term common goal that aligns with yours.
- Give the relationship time - it takes at least a year or two to truly know someone.
- Actions speak louder than words - observe how they act and their emotions rather than relying solely on what they say.
Actions Speak Louder Than Words
06:52 - 09:22
- Actions speak louder than words in relationships.
- It's easy to fake words, but hard to fake actions and emotions.
- Incongruency between words and actions is a sign that something is wrong.
- Trust is essential for any relationship to work.
- Becoming your best self, finding common goals, and giving it time are important in relationships.